#1) "A women complained to Muhammad that her husband slapped her on the face, (which was still marked by the slap). At first the prophet said to her: "Get even with him", but then added: "Wait until I think about it". Later on, Allah supposedly revealed 4:34 to Muhammad, after which the prophet said: "We wanted one thing but Allah wanted another, and what Allah wanted is best".
The above quote comes from Razi's "At-Tasfir al-Kabir" on 4:34.
However there is no source for this hadith, this it is unacceptable.